Today, the matchmakers at Birmingham Singles will answer one of
the most popular questions they receive from women(what men want in a
relationship). As they mentioned many
times, men are simple creatures; therefore, their explanation will be very
simple. So do not get shocked by the
simplicity of the answers.
As a woman, you might not agree with some of these things, because it's
not what you want in a relationship, but remember, you are a woman and you have
different expectations. When it comes to
relationships, these are all the things men are looking for before starting
one.
Of course, there are probably men out there who are looking for
different expectations when looking for a partner, but those men are the
exception, and we won't discuss them or what they desire in a
relationship. Today, the matchmakers at Birmingham
Singles will review the most general things men want in a relationship.
1. They Want Sex
This probably doesn't come as a shock to you. But it might be shocking to realize that it's
the most important thing that a man wants from a woman. And this isn't our opinion either, but it's
the most important thing men want. The
honest truth, this is probably the main reason most men get up in the morning,
in hopes they will land a girlfriend who they can wake up in bed with every day.
You might sit and argue that food is the most important thing to men,
but think about this--If men had to choose between food and sex, which one
would they pick? You got that right, men
would rather have sex than food. This is
why they would rather be starving and getting sex than eating a good meal.
Basic thing is that without getting sex, men would not be able to
function. If sex is missing out of their
lives, they will do whatever it takes to bring it back. Don't think of sex as a kinky thing that men
want to have--It all boils down to having a woman they can be intimate with on
a regular basis, explains Birmingham Singles.
2. They Want Comfort
Comfort is yet another one of the most important things men seek in a
relationship, and it's a main reason why they stay in a relationship, explains Birmingham
Singles. Many men want a woman who
is able to provide them a safe haven, a comfortable home, a warm and caring
atmosphere that lets them escape the hustle and bustle of everyday life. This isn't a physical environment, but more
so an emotional one. The fact that a man
is able to come home after a tough day, sit down on his own sofa next to his
woman, is something that many Birmingham men only dream about. Men want a woman who helps them feel
comforted and take their mind away from all the anxieties of everyday life,
explains Birmingham Singles.
Men love and appreciate the support and caring words women give
them. They desire a woman's warmth and
understanding. To put it in simple
terms, a woman makes a man feel better.
On the flip side, if you're constantly nagging, criticizing, and
treating them with disrespect, they're less likely to get involved in a
relationship with you. And if they're
already in the relationship, they'll do whatever it takes to get out.
3. They Want Companionship
Companionship is probably another reason why men decide to marry a
woman. As the word companionship implies
need, men are looking for a person who is fun to be around, a person who shares
the same interests as them, a person who they can share their goals with, a
person who understands their sense of humor, and a person who is able to stick
by them through thick and thin, explains Birmingham Singles.
Once they're able to find such a woman, it is only natural that a man
will do everything in his power to spend the most time he can with this
woman.
4. They Want A Confident & Secure Woman
Men want a woman they can choose, not one that chooses them. Yes, men want to be wanted and needed by
their partner, but they also want a woman who is able to have her own
identity. Men want a woman to be active,
independent, and have her own friends and interests, explains BirminghamSingles. On the other hand, men love
the time they spend together as well.
5. They Want A Manipulation Free Relationship
Men hate manipulation of any kind.
And that includes trying to read their partner's mind or decipher
signals from them, explains Birmingham Singles. They don't want to speed up things any faster
if they're not ready to do it. Men hate
being manipulated into taking blame when things go wrong. In other words, men don't like playing
games.
Women often believe that men don't like communicating, and the only way
to get through to them is manipulation.
Women believe that men constantly need reminded that their relationship
needs to move forward.
A Helpful Tip: Men will never
tolerate manipulation of any kind, and in order to attract a good man, you must
let go of your manipulating ways.
6. They Want A Loyal Woman
Fidelity is a must when looking for a relationship, explains Birmingham
Singles. In fact, men search for a
woman who doesn't have a wandering eye and can devote herself 100% to the
relationship. Men want a woman who is
loyal and trustworthy, especially when he's not around.
7. They Want A Woman Who Treats Them Well
Many women treat a man in a way that demolishes their ego and makes
them feel inadequate, but men would rather have a woman who praises them and
gives them more acknowledgment when they do things right, explains Birmingham
Singles. Men love feeling loved and
appreciated all the time.
So there you have it, ladies... Some simple, perhaps shocking, but true
things that men want out of a relationship.
You might think that he's searching for something else, but that is
everything he's looking for in a partner.
You see, some of those things might be completely different than what
you're looking for, but as mentioned in the beginning, that is because you're a
woman, and he's a man, and you both have different needs and desires when it
comes to a relationship, explains Birmingham Singles. And even though men and women have different
desires, everything boils down to number three.
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